Sometimes I think my father is a part of the reason
I believe in God.
Then I remember that I was a weird kid who would
wander the playgrounds looking up at the sky and speaking God questions like,
“Why don’t those girls want to be my friend? Why doesn’t everyone want to be
everyone’s friend?”
My connection to God was innate from the beginning.
But I think there are things that I saw in my father that strengthened my
knowing and understanding of God, not just my connection to Him.
The way he went out of his way to spend whatever
scrap of time he could with my sister and I –often at the expense of losing
money for leaving work early and putting up with mom who made his life as much
of a hell as she could.
The way he would tell me to stand on the bus so an
elderly woman could sit there instead. The way he would let a disabled person
go before us if we were standing in line at the grocery store. The way he would
smile and say graciously, “No problem”, whenever he did these sorts of acts for
people.
The way he’s a goofball who acts like a little kid
sometimes and plays with his lego creations and tries to capture the flag WW2
style in an online video game.
His love of animals. The way he’s different like me
and will instantly connect with a pet and utterly befriend them where other
people in “polite society” will merely acknowledge the animal and say, “Oh yes
I love dogs…”.
He has good spiritual insight sometimes. He just
wants peace and for this world to stop tearing itself to shreds.
He is calm.
He is patient.
He is giving.
He is
caring.
He restores my faith in humanity-but especially MEN
in particular. They often seem foreign to me the way they are foreign to their
own souls.
I know he’ll look after those around him and do
what’s ever needed to see that they are protected.
He isn’t boastful. To include the word in any sentence
you would ever say of him appears like a stark contradiction, even when saying
he isn’t that way. If he complains to you about anything, you know you’ve
earned his deepest trust.
I see good in him. I see caring and genuine
sincerity. I see patience and giving.
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