2 day mentoring training. Saturday and Sunday. 9am-4pm. It was intense.
20 trainee mentors sat in a circle and learned different techniques for relating to at-risk youth and handling life.
We were not allowed to take notes -this was purely experiential. Like life. Everything occurred on a first-hand basis.
The lessons we learned were:
1. Do not carry your past/opinions/pre-conceived notions into your present.
2. Be objective -not reactive/subjective. Do not mistake facts with interpretations/opinions/judgments.
3. Know when you are moving further from your goals (Winning at Losing)
4. Be open to trying new things
5. Realize that your reaction does not have to become an action. Respond by pausing and deciding what action will help you reach your goal. Don't become a victim of your circumstances.
6. Relate/Build a connection, Foster Trust, Keep your mentee focused on their goals
7. Take responsibility when you make a mistake/break a promise
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