Monday, February 11, 2013

Rewards and Difficulties the Zodiac Reveals About People's Relationships

This is something interesting I've been noticing for a while now. A pattern that has emerged several times among people.

Firstly: Those who suck at being in relationships and do not learn from their mistakes seem to fall into a pattern of dating the same kind of person with the same kind of issues over and over and over...

Secondly: People who marry and have a successful relationship with their spouse tend to have children whose Zodiac signs compliment their parents'.

1. Relationship Relapse

Noted people/patterns I've seen:

A Gemini woman who cheated with a Cancer, dated that Cancer for a year, then ended up being left by that Cancer then went onto date a Scorpio turned Cancer -a relationship that also failed in less than a year.

A Scorpio woman who slept with and eventually married a Gemini turned Libra ended up leaving and divorcing the Scorpio. The Scorpio then went on to date a Libra turned Gemini who was notorious for dating Scorpios and Cancers and then leaving them.

A Cancer woman dated a Capricorn turned Taurus, a Taurus turned Virgo, a Taurus and then a Scorpio -all in that order, their in their Vice. Each one was possessive and controlling and she became co-dependent with each of them. She is still dating the Scorpio -the longest of the relationships.

It seems that whether people realize it or not they end up dating the same types of people (specifically the same types of Zodiac signs) that end up ending the same ways after the same dysfunctional habits start to emerge. In the end, no one in the relationships seem to learn from their mistakes and look for someone different. They also seem to have the tendency to blame their failed relationship on the exes.

I think people self-sabotage themselves on a subconscious level. They seem drawn to the same failings in relationships before they even come up. Maybe it's out of fear of having the real thing -and.or the feeling of not being worthy of the real thing. Maybe it's just blind ignorance of patterns that seem so obvious to others outside of those relationships.

2. Functioning Families

A Cancer-born husband turned Scorpio after losing faith because his family was severely religious and a Pisces wife married until death. They gave birth to: an Aquarius turned Libra, a Gemini turned Aquarius, a Libra, and a Cancer. All are spiritual in their own way -all intellectually focused. All get along well and relate well to one another.

Two Capricorns married for over 20 years gave birth to a Capricorn/Aquarius cusp and a Taurus turned Capricorn. All Capricorns. All doing well, happy, spiritual, artistic, peaceful.

A Cancer-turned Pisces woman married to a Pisces man gave birth to a Leo, an Aries, a Sagittarius, and a Capricorn. Potentially a good combo -but there was a lot of head-butting and animosity in the household do to the parent's dysfunction. The siblings had stronger ties to each other than the parents.

A Gemini married a Libra and gave birth to a Pisces daughter and a Pisces turned Cancer daughter. The two divorced and the Libra remarried a Sagittarius and the Gemini remarried to a Libra/Gemini. The Pisces turned out well, but the Cancer seemed lost and waning between Scorpio/Cancer tendencies.

An Aquarius woman married a Scorpio man and had a Libra turned Gemini daughter and a Taurus daughter. The two divorced and the man remarried to a Virgo turned Capricorn. The Gemini and the Taurus remained close, and are still pretty close with their parents -although they had issues after the divorce and both the Gemini and Taurus are lost now for the most part.

A Cancer man married a Leo woman and gave birth to a Taurus son and an Aries turned Leo son.It's an interesting household, but they are very loving and energetic.

Families greatly influence their offspring -even before birth. And the functionality of the couple greatly impacts the functionality of the lives of the children. I'm not saying it's an ultimately defining factor -but these impacts do influence and help shape the person the children grow up to be -and how lost or found they are in life.

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